Hope for the hopeless

So I was in Wilmington for my cousin's wedding this past week-end. It was a blast to say the least, from kickball with the wedding party(most of us) on Thursday, to giggling at night with new friends, to the beauty of a God-centered marriage on the actual day. BUT... I have a story...

Thursday night after kickball, we dispersed to our destinations with a couple of pit stops in between. For my sister and I, it was starbucks(I wanted to do some reading, she needed to work on the powerpoint for the rehearsal dinner) and for our sister-in-law(SIL) it was Ross...or so we thought. I picked up the phone to let my SIL in her car behind us (about 4 cars back) know to turn left at the next light. We were turning right as she started saying someone got in a wreck. To spare all the details, it was not a pretty sight so I went ahead and turned as planned into the shopping center and parked across from the wreck. Only to find out the girl who slammed into another girl was "stuck" in her car. After I saw nobody but one lady was heading her way, I just got out and approached her as well. We managed to get her out of the car(which is not what you should do medically but the other lady who was a retired nurse insisted we move her because the car was "going to blow up") and carried her to the shoulder of the busiest road in Wilminton(college road).

To spare you from even more details, I'll fast forward to the part where my heart got way involved. After doing my nursing assessment while holding this girl who was pretty hurt on the side of the road, and after her not going in the ambulance to the hospital, I was so sad for her as she explained her situation in a "im in shock and despair" sort of way. She ended up sitting with me in my car(with the heat full blast) and I was praying this whole time mind you, for strength to take the opportunity to share God's love, wisdom, and to hold my tears back as she was not crying herself. You see...

After a few questions and more details I won't go into, I found out she used to be a surg tech, she hurt her leg previously in February and does not have medical insurance, and she found out her mom has breast cancer THAT VERY DAY. All I managed to do for her in the short time we had in my car was listen, tell her how sorry I was, and pray a prayer of hope(I decided that's more so what it was). I cannot imagine her situation, how hopeless she must feel, but I know the God in whom I trust and serve is mighty to save and gives hope to the hopeless...so that's where I turned. I wish I could say she gave her life to the Lord in the midst of her physical and emotional pain, but that probably wasn't the time...if nothing else, the Lord sure used the situation to give me a heart check and remember no matter the circumstances, I know that as a child of God, I have hope.

"and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us." Romans 5:5

"He delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us. On him we have set our hope that he will deliver us again." 2 Corinthians 1:10